
The debate over when to keep children home from school due to illness reflects a broader concern about balancing public health with educational needs. During COVID, schools emphasized the importance of keeping any sick children at home to prevent the spread of the virus. However, as the immediate crisis has waned, there’s a shift towards encouraging attendance even when children exhibit mild symptoms of illness.
The American Academy of Pediatrics advises that children should stay home if they exhibit signs of significant illness, such as fever, vomiting, or diarrhea, or if they are not well enough to engage in class activities. Fever is specifically defined as a body temperature of 101º F.
This inconsistency in guidelines reflects the diverse approaches of different schools and districts, influenced by their tolerance for illness and local health concerns.
The decision on when to keep a child home from school due to illness involves balancing the risk of spreading contagious diseases with the importance of regular school attendance for education and social development. Guidelines vary by location and are evolving in response to changing public health dynamics and educational priorities.
Let’s hear from you, has your school district changed attendance guidance? If not, should your school health guidelines be updated?
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My children’s school has definitely changed guidelines, or the school nurse has her own. My son got sick at school and went to the nurse’s office. He was told to lie down for fifteen minutes and sent back to class because he didn’t have a fever. He spent the rest of the day running back and forth to the bathroom because he had severe diarrhea. Four of those times, he didn’t quite make it in time and had to clean himself up. I am furious that I wasn’t called to make the decision to pick him up. Another student went to the nurse because of fever, vomiting, chills, etc. and was sent back to class. Meanwhile, my son has gotten sick twice since the beginning of the school year- fever, cough, vomiting, body aches, etc. and the school counselor told him that (even though he had doctor’s notes explained his absences) if he misses any more school they will have to contact child protective services. Now he is scared to get sick! Since when did it become a crime to keep or send sick students home? Maybe if more parents, and the school nurse, did this, then so many other students (like my son) wouldn’t get sick so frequently!
Thank you for reaching out Amber, I hope you can discuss your concerns with the school nurse and administration. While our goal is to have our students present in school, there are certainly circumstances, like illness, where students do need to have excused absences. Chronic absenteeism is a huge issue across the country, but that is equivalent to missing 10% or more of school, so about 2 days per month. Your concerns are valid, and it is best if you discuss them with the staff involved.