
- Increased stress levels: The advisory notes that parents are experiencing significantly higher levels of stress compared to adults without children. 41% of parents report being so stressed most days that they cannot function properly.
- Multiple stressors: Parents face various challenges, including traditional concerns like safety, rising living costs, and lack of sleep. New stressors have emerged as well, such as managing children’s social media use, addressing loneliness, and dealing with youth mental health issues.
- Work-life balance struggles: Parents are working longer hours than previous generations while simultaneously dedicating more time to their children. This leaves less time for relaxation, recovery, and social connections.
- Impact on children: The advisory emphasizes that parents’ mental health challenges can significantly affect their children’s well-being, potentially leading to negative mental, physical, and behavioral health outcomes.
- Call for policy reforms: The Surgeon General advocates for policy changes to support families, including enhanced childcare assistance, national paid family leave, paid sick time, and poverty reduction strategies.
- Workplace support: Employers are encouraged to develop supportive policies and training for parents and caregivers in the workplace and improve access to quality mental health services.
- Community support: The advisory stresses the importance of friends and family extending support to parents, whether through practical assistance or simply checking in.
- Self-care importance: Parents are urged to prioritize their well-being, recognizing that self-care is not selfish but essential for providing the best support to their children.
- Cultural shift: The advisory calls for a fundamental change in how society values and prioritizes parents’ well-being, acknowledging that no society can thrive when parents and children are struggling.
- Comprehensive approach: The Surgeon General emphasizes the need for a collective effort involving policymakers, employers, communities, and families to create a more supportive environment for parents and caregivers.
Implications for School Nurses
As a school nurse, a parent, and now a grandparent, this advisory hits home. School nurses play a pivotal role in the ecosystem of family and child well-being, and this advisory has several important implications for our practice:
- Enhanced screening: School nurses may need to expand our screening protocols to include assessments of family stress and parental mental health, recognizing the impact these factors have on student well-being.
- Resource coordination: Nurses can serve as key liaisons between families and community resources, helping to connect parents with mental health services, support groups, and other assistance programs.
- Education and outreach: School nurses can develop and implement programs to educate parents about stress management, self-care, and the importance of seeking help when needed.
- Collaborative care: The advisory emphasizes the need for a team approach. School nurses should work closely with counselors, teachers, and administrators to create a supportive school environment that acknowledges and addresses family stressors.
- Policy advocacy: Armed with their unique perspective on student and family health, school nurses can advocate for school and district-level policies that support parental well-being, such as flexible parent-teacher meeting times or on-site family counseling services.
- Early intervention: Recognizing signs of family stress early on, school nurses can play a crucial role in preventing more serious mental health issues through timely interventions and referrals.
Read Dr. Murthy’s NYT OpEd about this important advisory.

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