This morning, I was delighted to read this moving message from my dear friend and colleague, Donna Gaffney:
Honor in,Like you, Michelle Obama’s speech in Kalamazoo really moved me. I began To think about the women in my life who came before me, personally and professionally, paved the way for us today. I also thought about my daughter and granddaughters, I know you did too! I pulled out photos of my grandmothers, immigrants, and my granddaughters who went to the ballot box with their moms.Then I thought about our nursing ancestors, specifically Lavinia Dock, a suffragist, and author of this amazing quote:So, I wrote this essay to encourage other women— nurses to respond to us with their own stories and photos.“The old stiff minds must give way. The old selfish minds must go. Obstructive reactionaries must move on. The young are at the gates!”
Heed the call to action this election season! Join Donna Gaffney in a powerful tribute to the trailblazing women who fought tirelessly for our rights. As we step into the voting booth, let’s carry the spirit of those courageous souls who came before us, especially the fearless women in nursing and beyond.
As you cast your ballot, envision the faces of the women who have touched your life – your grandmother’s wisdom, your mentor’s guidance, your daughter’s hope. Your vote is a bridge connecting their dreams to future realities. I know my vote was cast for my precious granddaughter, Nora’s future.
Now is the time to share your story, to inspire others with the legacy of strength and determination passed down through generations. Let your words and images spark a movement, encouraging fellow nurses and women everywhere to join this vital chorus of democracy
Together, we stand on the shoulders of giants. Let’s honor their sacrifices by making our voices resound at the polls. This is more than a vote – it’s a declaration that the torch of progress burns brightly in our hands. The future is calling. Will you answer?
Here is Donna’s message:

With pen in hand, I fill out my ballot, yet I am not alone. The strength of women who came before me, who fought tirelessly to give me a voice, surrounds me. My vote honors my grandmother Anna, who courageously left post-World War I Germany for America in 1922, and my husband’s grandmother Mary, who arrived in Boston from Ireland to start her new life. I wear my mother Madelon’s wedding ring every day, and today, its presence grounds me. She passed away in 2007 during the Obama campaign. She told me before she died that Barack would have her vote.
These courageous women lived with unshakable hope, passing down a legacy of resolve and determination. When I vote, I carry their voices forward, ensuring their resilience inspires my daughter and young granddaughters. My vote is for all of our mothers, grandmothers, daughters, and sisters. My vote is for all the women working to feed their families, working towards a better world, and working towards the goals set so long by our foremothers.
As a nurse-driven by compassion and a commitment to advocate for my patients, there is yet another presence behind me, Lavinia Dock—a pioneering nurse and suffragist who fought fiercely in the late 19th century for justice, equality, and women’s right to vote. Her call to action echoes through time, challenging us to rise against injustices. Lavinia Dock stands behind me, her legacy and spirit urging me forward: “The old selfish minds must go. Obstructive reactionaries must move on. The young are at the gates!” Together, we stand at those gates, ready to make change.
As Michelle Obama said,
“Please, do not hand our fates over to the likes of Trump, who knows nothing about us and has shown only contempt. A vote for him is a vote against us—against our health, our worth.”
A vote for Kamala Harris protects the legacy of the women who fought for us.
Madame Vice President, we are all standing at the gates.
– Donna Gaffney, DNSc, PMHCNS-BC, FAAN
Share your responses by emailing relentlessschoolnurse@gmail.com, or leave a comment on this post and I will be sure to compile them for a future blog.
Here is a powerful song suggested by Donna to begin a women’s vote playlist!
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Beautiful writing. Beautiful prompt to really put a person in the moment of voting. It is somber and joyous. Very very serious important business, but so inspiring and hopeful. I have a “voting shirt” that I wear proudly and honestly ritualistically EVERY TIME I VOTE. I made it in honor of my beloved niece, a PROUD young feminist who died at the mind numbing age of 23. That was 2005. Front, a photo of Em casting her first vote. Back, Barack Obama YES WE DID. I just put it on. Have decided to go vote early today. Need to change up my ritual a little bit because I am an official election worker this round and can’t wear any political swag (although Em’s shirt WILL be under my navy sweater on November 5). Vote friends. Be deliberate. Be loud. Be proud. We CAN do this. And thanks Donna for giving me more folks to think about when voting.
I will be sure to share your beautiful message with Donna!